Driving Home for Christmas – How a Moment of Failure Created a Timeless Classic By Titan007
Many people are not very successful in pursuing their dreams or New Year's Resolutions, while others seem to quickly achieve whatever they choose to pursue. So the question for each of us is, "How can I make it happen for me?"
1. Recognize & Celebrate Your Successes Of This Past Year
Take your time, sit back & reflect on the last 12 months of your achievements & write them down. Include items like "I watched less television" or "I was less bothered by ..." etc. Then once you have your list, take some time to show your pleasure & pride with your successes. You deserve it. We often
2. Identify Your Dreams For This Upcoming Year
Create 3-6 specific & short statements that identify what you really want. Then reflect & write down 2-4 sentences on what it will be like when you have achieved each of these goals. Be as descriptive as you can. Finally, put this information somewhere you can pull out readily throughout your day.
3. Identify Your Key Steps You Will Take In The Next 3 Months That Will Move You Towards Your Dreams
You may prefer more broad strategic statements, or you may choose particular tasks -- either way is
4. Commit To Yourself Daily That These Key Steps Are Your Priorities For Change During This Time
Other opportunities will come your way & you will need to choose if you will be distracted or not. You may want to review the material you prepared for item #2 daily to remind yourself why these essential steps are so vital for you.
5. Secure The Support That You Need To Be Successful
We can be a lot more successful if we share our desires with someone we trust. This could be your friend, family member, or personal development coach. You may want more than one person's support. You may also need tools to help you out as a daily reminder in your day timer or calendar.
6. Action Your Key Steps
This is the most critical step of all. Take that first step -- it's incredible how much enthusiasm & confidence you have for other items once you win or two.
7. Track Your Progress Regularly
This may be on a daily, weekly, or monthly basis -- you choose what's right for you. The key here is to keep track of your wins & look at your next ones to take. This aids in momentum.
8. Keep Your Cool -- Remember That Life Still Goes On
At times, you may get overwhelmed with all you want to get done & you may simply not have sufficient time in your day for everything. Be kind to yourself. I hear, "Rome wasn't built in a day." You may also need to reduce or eliminate something temporarily or permanently that takes a lot of your time
9. Celebrate Your Successes
You must celebrate your successes. It may be through writing yourself a congratulations letter with full details of what the accomplishments were & how you feel about it. Or it could be taking a nice, quiet bath where you pamper yourself. Choose to celebrate in a way that you will appreciate.
10. Repeat
If you have chosen some big goals/dreams, you may not have them fully realized in the first 3 months, so you will need to repeat steps 3-9.
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