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Claire Bennet vs Samantha LaRusso: Two Teenage Heroes, Two Completely Different Battles

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 Two teenage girls. Two hugely popular television franchises. Two very different ideas of what it means to survive. Claire Bennet from Heroes and Samantha LaRusso from Cobra Kai may come from completely different worlds, but their stories share more DNA than it first appears. Claire is the cheerleader who discovers that her body can regenerate from almost any injury. Sam is the daughter of Daniel LaRusso, raised in the shadow of one of cinema and television’s most recognizable martial-arts legacies. One possesses an extraordinary supernatural ability. The other has to survive with nothing more than training, determination, family support and her own ability to overcome fear. That difference makes their comparison fascinating. Claire Bennet: The Girl Who Was Never Allowed to Be Normal When Heroes introduced Claire Bennet, she initially looked like an ordinary American teenager. She was a cheerleader. She worried about school, relationships, popularity and her family. Then she dis...

How to Deal With Negative People (Without Letting Them Drain You) by Titan007

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  by Titan007 Most of us have at least one negative person orbiting our lives. They can be tiring—even exhausting—to be around, yet for one reason or another, we still have to spend time with them. Maybe it’s a coworker, your partner’s friend, a friend’s partner, or a family member. So, how do you handle negative people without letting them wear you down? In short, there are 7 things you can do: Avoid them whenever possible. Ignore them Step into their shoes (empathize) Use the mirror test (projection) Choose happiness Practice gratitude Don’t try to “fix” their mood. 1) Avoid them whenever possible The most obvious move: reduce contact. Step back and let them be. This is easy when there’s no strong tie, but harder when it’s someone you must see—like a colleague or family member. Still, set boundaries where possible. 2) Ignore them If you can’t avoid them, can you ignore the negativity? Let them vent without feeding it. This takes some effort, but far less than engaging. Perpetuall...