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 Have you ever encountered an experience when someone told you how fat you've become? Maybe your boss has commented on how bad your work turned out to be. Perhaps you've heard from other folks how people view you as cold and unapproachable. Hurts, doesn't it? Believe it or not, some people can be so disrespectful that they are not even aware when they've hurt anyone's feelings. The receiving parties, especially the sensitive ones, would be offended by their remarks. This would result in conflicts and arguments. You know you're doing them a big favor by saving them from shame or disappointment, but would they realize your good intentions instead of feeling hurt by your brutally frank comments or pieces of advice? They might probably think you're too impolite. But what can you do if you really need to assert an honest criticism, but you're afraid of hurting others' feelings? Want to know the secret? All you have to do is sandwich your negative comment ...