Claire Bennet vs Samantha LaRusso: Two Teenage Heroes, Two Completely Different Battles

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 Two teenage girls. Two hugely popular television franchises. Two very different ideas of what it means to survive. Claire Bennet from Heroes and Samantha LaRusso from Cobra Kai may come from completely different worlds, but their stories share more DNA than it first appears. Claire is the cheerleader who discovers that her body can regenerate from almost any injury. Sam is the daughter of Daniel LaRusso, raised in the shadow of one of cinema and television’s most recognizable martial-arts legacies. One possesses an extraordinary supernatural ability. The other has to survive with nothing more than training, determination, family support and her own ability to overcome fear. That difference makes their comparison fascinating. Claire Bennet: The Girl Who Was Never Allowed to Be Normal When Heroes introduced Claire Bennet, she initially looked like an ordinary American teenager. She was a cheerleader. She worried about school, relationships, popularity and her family. Then she dis...

The ABC's Of A Great Life: "R" Is For Respect


 A great life is based on respect - respect for others, self, and spirit. You must be able to demand respect from others, teach them what that means to you, and refuse to allow them to treat you otherwise. Likewise, you must offer the same to those around you, in full measure, without exception or restraint. Genuine respect does not demand that someone change to meet your approval first, and you should not bow to others' demands of the shift from you. But what of those who will not give respect or those whom you cannot respect yourself?

In the former case, you simply must remove yourself from their presence as much as possible, even to the extent of leaving a job, a friendship, or even a family relationship. Allowing others to treat you disrespectfully will diminish who you can be and what you can offer the world. It will eat away at your strength and distract you from your goals by drawing away the needed focus and energy to deal with and clean up after the effects of their bad behavior in your life. It will also act as an acid on your soul, eventually causing you to lose your own self-respect and even to accept their treatment of you as appropriate or even deserved. For the sake of all you are here to do and for the sanctity of your very soul, you must demand respect for yourself and remove yourself from those who cannot give it.


As for the latter case, all deserve respect for their core humanity, if not for their current way of living. All humans are created of and by the Divine, and it is required that we offer them the respect that acknowledges that provenance, even if we can't see it for ourselves, and recognize that this is merely a failing on our part and not a reflection of the truth. If this person is such a disruptive force that you cannot bring yourself to treat them civilly, speak to them without anger or hatred, or even be around them without causing harm in some manner, then don't. But remember the truth that this is about you, not them, and dignify their existence with respect due to another creature of God, even if this means keeping your distance to prevent disrespectful behavior on either part.

If all else fails, here is a "prayer for the unlovable" that I found many years ago: "Dear Creator, bless this person, for their exhalations feed the flowers." If nothing else, you can respect them for their contribution to the ongoing cycle of life and for the gift of showing you your own weaknesses and sore spots in dealing with other children of God.

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