Driving Home for Christmas – How a Moment of Failure Created a Timeless Classic By Titan007

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 Every year, as December arrives and the world slowly shifts into a quieter, more reflective rhythm, one familiar melody begins to echo through cars, radios, and homes across the globe. Traffic thickens, cities glow with festive lights, and people everywhere begin the same journey — back to where they belong. Among all the holiday songs played during this season, few feel as personal, as honest, or as emotionally grounded as Driving Home for Christmas . At first glance, it sounds simple. A calm voice. A steady rhythm. A man on the road, heading home. But behind this understated Christmas classic lies a powerful story — one built not on instant success or holiday magic, but on rejection, financial struggle, love, and resilience. It is a story that proves a timeless truth: sometimes the greatest things in life are born when everything seems to be falling apart. A Song That Feels Like a Memory What makes Driving Home for Christmas so special is not technical brilliance or flashy prod...

3 Things That Help You Motivate Yourself

 The primary reason why we procrastinate is that we are not motivated enough. And there isn’t one single factor that determines motivation. In this article, we discuss the three factors that influence self-motivation.



I know that I am supposed to do a particular activity like an assignment, study a book, or write letters. But I tend to postpone these indefinitely, citing various excuses.

The primary reason why we procrastinate is that we are not motivated enough. Being a mentor for a bunch of young talented students in a leading MBA college allows me in a position where I can see a lack of self-motivation as one of the most giant stumbling blocks in student and professional life.

And there isn’t one single factor that determines motivation.

Charles Handy talks about 3 things that are required in motivational calculus.

  1. I should know my needs. These can be the need for security, money, food, clothing, shelter, or need for companionship, approval, or a need to fulfill my debt to various people.
  2. I should know which activity would satisfy all or some of these needs.
  3. I should have the energy or the resources (money, time, etc.) to spend on those activities.

The above are multiplicative. If any of the three is not there, I would not be motivated.

If I do not know my needs, no activity will motivate me.

If I do not have the energy or the resources, I cannot finish the activity satisfactorily.

If I do not know how to satisfy my needs, then I will not be motivated.

Therefore, I have to link the activity (that I dislike) to a need. For example, if I fear that I will fail a course and therefore need to pass it and get rid of my fear, I can link an assignment to that need. On the other hand, suppose I need the approval of my colleagues, and the distasteful activity will satisfy that need. In that case, I will try to do the exercise.

Whether I finish, the activity is based on the resources at hand. Suppose I do not have the time or delay it so much that I cannot possibly finish. In that case, I am not motivated to do the activity, even if I know that the movement will satisfy a need.

The same principle holds good for motivating others. For example, suppose I do not know the needs of another person. In that case, I cannot offer him an activity that would satisfy the requirements.

If I know his needs and link it to an activity that I want him to do and provide him with the means and resources (including training) to do that activity, the person will be motivated.

Remove any three (needs, activity, or resources), and there will be no motivation.

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